We
all know that our parents love us ardently. We also know that there’s
nothing that we cannot share with them thinking they won’t understand.
But even then, there are certain things that we tend to hide from them because we don’t know with certainity, how they will react. Due to this fear, we keep things to ourselves and wonder how it would be if we could tell them everything.
Well, I don’t know when you will get the courage to tell them whatever you feel, but I have figured out a few of those things that most of us want to tell our parents
But even then, there are certain things that we tend to hide from them because we don’t know with certainity, how they will react. Due to this fear, we keep things to ourselves and wonder how it would be if we could tell them everything.
Well, I don’t know when you will get the courage to tell them whatever you feel, but I have figured out a few of those things that most of us want to tell our parents
Let’s see if yours is listed among these 7 things.
1. We hate it when they pressurize us to study.
1. We hate it when they pressurize us to study.
We
know that our parents are worried about our future for our betterment,
but they are hurting us in the process, while doing so.
Already the pressure of clearing exams and scoring well is too high and in such situations, our minds are just not capable of dealing with the additional burden of expectations that comes from our parents; it just makes it worse for us.
Already the pressure of clearing exams and scoring well is too high and in such situations, our minds are just not capable of dealing with the additional burden of expectations that comes from our parents; it just makes it worse for us.
2. We don’t like how they have so many expectations from us.
It’s understandable that we are their kids and they want us to behave in a certain manner, but we have our own life too.
Whether it is about our career or our love life, we want to choose it on our own and not as per our parents’ expectations.
3. We want to be something other than what they want.
No,
we don’t want to be a doctor, engineer, teacher or get an MBA because
they want us to be, we will if that's where our passion truly lies.
What's the harm if we turn out photographers, dancers, writers and other things that help us bring out the best of our creativity. Only if all parents could understand that.
What's the harm if we turn out photographers, dancers, writers and other things that help us bring out the best of our creativity. Only if all parents could understand that.
4. We want to talk about our love life.
Wouldn't
it be amazing if we could actually tell them about the person we like
and who we are dating? After all, shouldn't they be the first ones to
know what is going on in our lives and help deal with our problems
should we run into a few?
We want to live in a world where we can pick a person to date and be transparent about it with our parents and not have them wonder about what society would think.
We want to live in a world where we can pick a person to date and be transparent about it with our parents and not have them wonder about what society would think.
5. We need our space too.
We
know that we are lucky to have a family and we cherish every single
moment we spend with them. But there comes a time when we want a little
privacy and space and we hesitate in asking for the same. How I wish we
could!
6. We get drunk and wild.
Who
wouldn’t want to tell all their drunk and wild stories to their
parents? Unfortunately, if we ever tell them, we know the consequences
won’t be in our favour, huh?
In an ideal world, we wouldn't even mind drinking with our parents, would we?
In an ideal world, we wouldn't even mind drinking with our parents, would we?
7. How much we love them.
We
live in a time where none of us are as expressive as we should be
towards our parents. That’s why we don’t even remember the last time we
said ‘I love you’ to them. Well, you can say this now!
Regards
Ankush D Shilimkar
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