12 Things You Would Relate To If Y ou Can’t Decide What To Eat Ever!

12 Things You Would Relate To If You Can’t Decide What To Eat Ever! 
Life is difficult for people who can’t decide what to eat. Poor guys, struggling to make the most important decision – What to eat? Because, what if the dish they order looks pale in front of what’s being ordered on the next table? What if that wrap isn’t as fancy as it looks in the menu? What if...god forbids...it tastes like poison?
 
For picky eaters, the struggle is real. Here’s a real life scenarios that every person who can’t decide what to eat would relate to...
 
1. You love hotel menus so much that you don’t look at them, you study them
 
Like it’s the entire syllabus, and you’ve got to pick up your favourite topics.
 
2. You ask people for suggestions, they suggest, but you still eat what you want
 
One of the reasons why your friends hate going out with you. You go to a restaurant, the one your friend recommended. But when its time to order you're not quite convinced. Happens all the time? Well...
 
3. You want this. You want that. You want everything
 
Damn those momos look great. But what about those honey-glazed chicken wings? And those beer battered shrimps? How about ordering it all?
 
4. You order everything, only to realise you and your crew can’t finish them
 
“Take this, finish it, please.” *Forcibly serves starters*
 
5. You’re used to getting looks from the waiters
 
“Oh man, make up your mind already #$%%%” - Every waiter in his mind, while he is patiently waiting for you to order.
 
6. You’re Never satisfied
 
No matter how good the food is, you keep thinking about what you’ve missed ordering. Nothing satisfies you. I repeat NOTHING.
 
7. You go through reviews before going to a new place
 
You do full research on what's good to eat at what place. You would go through each and every picture posted by the reviewers.
8. You avoid going out for dinner dates
 
That’s because you know that the person would leave you half way because you couldn’t decide between Chinese or Continental.
 
9. You let others order for you, but again, you’re too hard to please
 
“Take! You only order” – You to your friend while giving him/her the menu. “Yaar, yeh kya mangwaaya?” – you after the food arrives.
 
10. You love eating alone
 
That way, nobody gets to judge you. You – 1, Others – 0
 
11. You’re a pain in queues
 
You take your sweet time to decide, while the people behind you shout – ‘Today sir, today!’
 
12. You end up ordering the same thing. AGAIN!
 
Even though you took 20 minutes to study the menu, you ordered a Pizza. Again. Because, it’s your favourite and you realised that only after 20 minutes.

Regards
Ankush D Shilimkar

Mistakes We are All Guilty Of Making But Need To Stop Immediately!

12 Common Mistakes We're All Guilty Of Making But Need To Stop Immediately!
 
 
Mistakes teach us lessons. But repeating them isn’t going to take us anywhere. We as humans have a tendency to make incorrigible mistakes that not only get us into trouble but can also ruin our lives.
 
Here are some common mistakes that we repeatedly make and should seriously stop.
1. We try to find benefits in relationships
 
‘I will only talk to her when I have some work’, ‘I will marry someone who earns Rs.2 lacs per month’, ‘I only make friends who are rich’. We all try to find benefits and advantages with relationships. It’s selfish on our part to attach a ‘give and take’ angle to something that we should cherish instead of make a business out of. A relationship should be based on respect, care and love - not hidden intentions.
 
2. We over-think and assume things
 
How many times have we had sleepless nights just because we thought things in our head that didn't even happen the next day? Well, a lot of us overthink for no reason. We also assume before knowing the entire background to a story, which then make us look stupid when the facts behind the story are revealed to us.
3. We do not appreciate what we have
 
This is one of the biggest mistakes we make, and it leads us to an unhappy life. We always feel the grass is greener on the other side and barren on our side. That wanting to be someone else makes us lose our own selves. Life ought to be different for different people. We must accept that and live it with full gusto and gratefulness.
4. We try to cling to things or people
 
Clinging to people and things only results in heartbreak. That’s because people, after a while, get tired of our clingy attitude, and things, being perishable, perish, ending into nothing but dust. Thus, it’s best to not run behind things and people who don’t want us.
5. We keep higher expectations
 
Most of the time, keeping expectations leads to disappointment. When higher expectations don’t yield results, it make us extremely unhappy. Expect nothing.
6. We are prejudiced and ignorant
 
Many of us keep prejudices against people based on their communities, religion and faith. It makes us rude and ignorant, which is so not how an ideal human is supposed to be.
 
7. We ignore henkgh by making excuses of being busy
 
We millennials ignore our henkgh as if it’s someone else’s business to keep us henkghy. We make our sedentary lifestyle a scapegoat for not being active. We don’t realise the adverse effects of not exercising when we’re young. Guess we'll only become wise in our 40s.
8. We do everything in excess - from overeating to excessive talking
 
Food, when eaten in proportion is proved to be good for henkgh. However, when we overeat, it’s not only heavy on our digestive system, but it also proves as a deterrent to our thinking process. Similarly, talking without putting much thought can cause a slip of the tongue resulting in embarrassment.
9. We work too hard without a sense of direction
 
Because, without a sense of direction, all your hard work is futile. Goal-less work will never bear fruit, as nothing great will be accomplished if you don’t plan.
10. We sell ourselves too short
 
Having low self-esteem is dangerous in today’s world. That’s because the world is ready to crush you if you don’t stand up for yourself.
11. We lie without knowing how to lie
 
Lying, they say, is an art. But when one doesn’t know the art, they fall flat on the face and get caught. We aren’t advocating lying as a virtue. But a harmless lie doesn’t hurt anyone. Only, you must be smart enough to do it.
12. We trust others instead of ourselves
 
It’s a brutal world when you’re all alone. That's a fact and you’ve got to accept it. Being gullible is a mistake that many commit. Putting faith in others and not in yourself will only make you regret your choices. Trusting someone is a huge risk that you’ve got to think twice before taking.

Regards
Ankush D Shilimkar

What is meaning of life?

What is meaning of life?
 
Nothing in life has any meaning besides the meaning we give it. How do we create meaning? In many cases we are programmed by our culture and the people around us. The truth is that all meaning is subjective. Some of us believe that good clothes, a perfect, body big house, car and having a lot of money is the true meaning of success.
Some of us are taught that death is sadness and others believe it is joyful because we get rid of our warn-out bodies so our spirit can move on and have more fun!
Imagine you are in the ocean and you are a poor swimmer. Behind you is a huge wave. Now what do you think?! You're scared as hell. Now imagine you are an experienced surfer and the same wave comes up behind you. You say, " What a wave dude". Did the wave change? Obviously it was just the meaning you gave to it.
If nothing in life has any meaning then life have nothing to do with what is happening in your life, but everything we feel is the meaning you attach it to.
Understanding that you can choose the meaning to the events in your life gives you a tremendous power to change the quality of your experiences, the quality of your results and the quality of your life.
If you feel angry or upset ask yourself, "What does my reaction to this say about me?" In other words, what do I have to believe to experience the emotions which I am experiencing right now? In short, you define your own experiences. You create your own meaning.

Regards
Ankush D Shilimkar

Breakthruough

Don’t limit yourself; that is one way you will not discover the full potential you possess.
Do something you never did, go someplace you’ve never being to, meet people you don’t know, and experience the goodness of life and you will experience a new phase of life you never encountered before.
When you are tired of walking, then run. But one fine day, you will not realize that you stopped running, because you are already flying!
Life is meant to be lived, that’s why it is called life. So go out there, and take risks with an open mind, and see the world in a new way.
Enjoy! Experience! Embrace!

Regards
Ankush D Shilimkar