It’s ok to not want a committed relationship, as long as both the people understand the casualness of it rather than letting the other one in a state of emotional despair.
So this article is for all those who might be stuck in a dead-end relationship and are clueless about it.
Watch out for these signs, cut your losses and get out before it’s too late.
1. They pick on stupid reasons to start a fight.
They subconsciously want a way out of this relationship and think if they pick fights often enough, you will eventually just give in.
2. They don’t want to mingle with your friends or your family.
They don’t want to form deep ties with the people in your life because they simply don’t plan to stick around for long enough.
3. They refrain from talking about the future of the relationship with you.
They’re afraid to label your relationship and be tied down.
4. They don’t put in enough efforts and you’re the one making all the sacrifices.
5. All their past relationships haven’t really ended too well.
Their past relationships might have not ended to well which led them to building a wall around themselves that you just can’t scale no matter how hard you try.
6. They’ve been hurt way too many times in the past.
They might have been cheated on or dumped in the past which had led them to closing their heart to others. They don’t want to go through the same thing again and find it extremely difficult to trust anyone and let them in.
7. They focus on the negative aspects of the relationship.
8. They often talk about wanting to be free even though you’re not really binding them.
If this is the case maybe you should let them go before you’re too deeply involved!
Regards
Ankush D Shilimkar
