When someone has made a mistake, they are in pain. We
feel they have done wrong, and we are in pain because of their mistake. Truth
is they are in more pain than anyone else.
The one who has made a mistake creates guilt, low self
confidence, low self esteem, fear of rejection and insecurity of future. If we
create anger, hurt and hatred then we are increasing their pain many folds.
They need love and acceptance to heal their pain.
A person goes towards any substance addiction because either
they are deprived of love; or crisis in life; or low self esteem and seeking
public approval for feeling good. Help them to heal the pain in order to give
up the addiction.
The intention should be reformation not punishment. Anger
gives punishment, depletes the energy of the one who has made a mistake. Love empowers them and brings about
reformation.
Perfect maturity is when a person hurts you and you try
to understand their situation and don’t hurt them back.
When we respond to people in the same manner as they have
behaved with us, we are copying them. When we keep copying each other, it is a
continuous exchange of the same quality of energy.
Every time we copy negative behaviours of people, we are
losing our own identity. We become an imitation of all the people we meet, and
stop using our original sanskars of love, respect and harmony.
Irrespective of the other’s behavior, be your original
self and radiate your qualities of love and humility. They will respond in the
same way. We will be happy while creating and radiating the energy and also
when we receive it from them.
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Regards
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