When the other person is right according to their
perspective and we feel they are wrong, conflict has begun. Two souls are
different, not right or wrong. Each is always right from their perspective.
Empathy means to detach from your own perspective and see
the situation from the perspective of the other person. This creates
understanding and compassion.
Even if we cannot understand the other
persons
perspective, let us always remember that what they are saying is the truth for
them. This is the first step towards conflict resolution.
Accept your negative sanskar or the sanskar of the other
person. Acceptance means no negative thoughts and energy of love keeps flowing.
This love and power helps to create a new sanskar. Acceptance is the first step
to Realisation and Transformation.
If there is a strain in any relationship, then definitely
we are creating wrong quality of thoughts for them. We need to clean our thoughts;
else even the best words and behavior will not get the right result.
To begin healing any relationship, do not focus on their
behavior, words or what they think about us. Let us take care that we are
creating the right thoughts and behavior towards them. If one person changes,
it will influence the other and healing begins.
When we are adjusting to sanskars of the other person, we
need to remember, they are also adjusting with our sanskars. Two souls will
always have different sanskars and will find the others sanskars
uncomfortable.
Accept the other
persons sanskar, which means remain
stable. Now help them to create a new sanskar and give them time to do it.
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